I Stand Corrected.

Hachi was just fine at daycare and had a blast :). When we picked him up he was same old happy self.  Yay for good doggie daycares!

Browner and Back to Real Life.

Just spent a week in gorgeous Kauai.  I already miss the perfect temperatures and the sea breeze against my skin.  Glorious glorious brown brown skin.  I couldn't help but lay on the beaches and bake my skin as brown as possible.  I know, I know ... Not the healthiest thing to do but I honestly do love being tanned!  I shamelessly used to fake and bake for performances (my poor paler teammates had to try and fake and bake or even spray tan even more just to catch up).  In Kauai, it didn't help that there were so many beautiful shades of beautiful brown skin around me.  Hawaiian folks are soooo damn lovely!

It was so easy to get used to living in shorts and tank tops and sandals and NEVER ever even think about sweaters and jackets and pants.  In a perfect world I would live by the beach with Hawaiian temperatures and wake up and fall asleep to ocean sounds.  There is really nothing quite like it.  

When the waves were huge and crashing crazily against the rocks, I thought to myself:

"NATURE IS THE BOSS OF ME."

I felt like a speck by the enormous sea.  Combined with the extra backdrop of super starry sky, one feels extremely tiny and in awe of everything at the same time.    

And can I gush about the lush sceneries?  

How much more breathtaking can you get? 

It's tough to be back in dry Alberta, but I am looking forward to picking up the little munchkin from daycare tomorrow.  The doggie daycare posted a pic of him on Instagram and it almost looks like Hachi is sad and missing us and the little guy on the right is comforting him.  

Awwww.

Mind Farts

-I send mental bad karma to the idiot that previously sat in my seat on the plane and left his/her chewing gum on the seat which then got all over my clothes: I wish you food poisoning and a year of bad dates.  Grrr!

-Had my first taste of soursop in Kauai. Yum!  Quite a strong taste though - I find I can only take a bit at a time.  Not like mangoes or papayas, which I can annihilate quite easily.  And the hard shelled avocados were amazing!  Hard to believe they were ripe because they were so hard but sure enough the lady at the farmer's market wasn't lying - they were ready to eat :)

-Pretty interesting how the Filipino community has thrived in Hawaii.  My parents still got to eat Filipino dishes and chat in Tagalog/Bisaya with the locals during our trip.  A lot of Illocano folks in Kauai!  A trip to the Kauai museum revealed that back in the early 1900's, Illocanos were encouraged to come to Hawaii because they were thought to be hard workers.

Yowza!

Finally caught up on Game of Thrones - just finished Season 6 with my sister.  Nicely done!  This season was bursting with epicness and me and my sis were constantly gasping and yelling at the TV.  I was ecstatic to see the end of Ramsay Bolton.  He was such a despicable character and had a crazy face that reminds me of the worst boss I ever had at the worst company I ever worked for.  Same childish psychotic attitude and everything!  My ex-boss is uglier and chubbier though (ha!).  Good riddance to both :)  Brienne, Tyrion and the Onion Knight are some of my favourites and I'm stoked to see them not die (yet?) and play more and more of a central role in this amazing story.

I think my initial prediction from years ago based on the name of the series of Game of Thrones books actually has a chance of coming true!  The series is called A Song of Fire and Ice, which made me think of Jon Snow of the icy wall eventually ending up with Daenarys mother of fiery dragons.  They also might be related but hey, that's how the Targaryens (and Lannisters) roll anyway.

Really do need to re-read the books again - it's been so long!  Or at least Wiki the characters and houses.  I've been terrified of spoilers so I haven't even been Googling anything related to the show.

Now I can.  

Killing is Dumb.

Many people here in Canada know of the Montreal Massacre, where a young man who "hated feminists" stormed in to the Ecole Polytechnique and murdered fourteen women, most of them engineering students.  Recently I read an article that mentioned a book by his mother Monique Lepine and I was curious enough to go and grab it from the library.

It was frustrating to read.  She grew up in a middle class family, was well-educated and yet for some reason still ended up dating and then marrying a horrible man.  He wouldn't let her work, he was unfaithful and he was abusive towards her and their two children.  Monique only finally left when he hit her son (the Montreal Massacre shooter) so badly that the physical marks stayed for weeks.  She ended up being a working single mom, leaving her kids with caregivers while she worked to earn a living (the ex husband stopped sending alimony after two payments).  From her standpoint, she seems to blame herself for not being there for her son.  

In my opinion I think it starts before that.  Why the hell would someone put up with dating someone so abusive and mysoginistic in the first place?  And to top it off, she endured several abortions (which he wasn't even there for) and then married the asshole.  AND THEN REPLICATED HIS PSYCHOTIC GENETIC MATERIAL BY HAVING KIDS WITH HIM.  What did she expect was going to happen?  The kids were abused, they saw their mom getting abused, plus they ended up inheriting unstable personality traits.  The odds were stacked up against them already.  The daughter ended up being horrible to the son (which could've played a part in his hatred of women) and being addicted to drugs, eventually taking her own life via overdose after her brother killed 14 innocent women and took his own life.  

I respect that Monique Lepine has spoken out and given her side of the story, but I can't help getting the sense that she still harbors victim mentality.  Much of the book is about how horrible she felt and how horrible society was to her.  She needs to teach women need to stay away from male idiots.  Or at least not to start families with them!  If you hopelessly (and pathetically) want to try to "change" the moron then fine, subject yourself to his idiocy.  But don't bring poor children into the mix :(  I know that kids won't necessarily be exactly like their psycho parents, but damn, do we have to make it THAT hard for them growing up?  

Ugh I need to read something a little more empowering.

Mind Farts

-The senseless killing of black men can't seem to stop.  RIP Alton Sterling and Philando Castile :(  One good thing about today's world: video evidence  

-I feel sick every time I think of the dog eating festival in China.  At the very least, there is worldwide outrage and I hope it will add to the vegan spark that is growing.  Dogs are smart and lovable beings and so are other animals. 

-I have to say, Edmonton is actually not so shabby in vegan eats.  Even a sketchy part of Chinatown houses a marvelous place called Veggie Garden and their vegetarian lemongrass "chicken" is fantastic.  I enjoyed vegan cupcakes at the 124 St Market and there is a new plant-based cafe that opened on 104 St as well :). Wheeeee!

-Kettlebells and calisthenics are pretty dope.  I was able to hold crow pose for a few seconds for the first time last week!  I'm not gonna lie, I kind of wanted to dance around and squeal a little but I kept it all in.
-Listening to tropical house music makes my hips reminisce about dancing to kizomba and bachata :)