Yowza!

Finally caught up on Game of Thrones - just finished Season 6 with my sister.  Nicely done!  This season was bursting with epicness and me and my sis were constantly gasping and yelling at the TV.  I was ecstatic to see the end of Ramsay Bolton.  He was such a despicable character and had a crazy face that reminds me of the worst boss I ever had at the worst company I ever worked for.  Same childish psychotic attitude and everything!  My ex-boss is uglier and chubbier though (ha!).  Good riddance to both :)  Brienne, Tyrion and the Onion Knight are some of my favourites and I'm stoked to see them not die (yet?) and play more and more of a central role in this amazing story.

I think my initial prediction from years ago based on the name of the series of Game of Thrones books actually has a chance of coming true!  The series is called A Song of Fire and Ice, which made me think of Jon Snow of the icy wall eventually ending up with Daenarys mother of fiery dragons.  They also might be related but hey, that's how the Targaryens (and Lannisters) roll anyway.

Really do need to re-read the books again - it's been so long!  Or at least Wiki the characters and houses.  I've been terrified of spoilers so I haven't even been Googling anything related to the show.

Now I can.  

Killing is Dumb.

Many people here in Canada know of the Montreal Massacre, where a young man who "hated feminists" stormed in to the Ecole Polytechnique and murdered fourteen women, most of them engineering students.  Recently I read an article that mentioned a book by his mother Monique Lepine and I was curious enough to go and grab it from the library.

It was frustrating to read.  She grew up in a middle class family, was well-educated and yet for some reason still ended up dating and then marrying a horrible man.  He wouldn't let her work, he was unfaithful and he was abusive towards her and their two children.  Monique only finally left when he hit her son (the Montreal Massacre shooter) so badly that the physical marks stayed for weeks.  She ended up being a working single mom, leaving her kids with caregivers while she worked to earn a living (the ex husband stopped sending alimony after two payments).  From her standpoint, she seems to blame herself for not being there for her son.  

In my opinion I think it starts before that.  Why the hell would someone put up with dating someone so abusive and mysoginistic in the first place?  And to top it off, she endured several abortions (which he wasn't even there for) and then married the asshole.  AND THEN REPLICATED HIS PSYCHOTIC GENETIC MATERIAL BY HAVING KIDS WITH HIM.  What did she expect was going to happen?  The kids were abused, they saw their mom getting abused, plus they ended up inheriting unstable personality traits.  The odds were stacked up against them already.  The daughter ended up being horrible to the son (which could've played a part in his hatred of women) and being addicted to drugs, eventually taking her own life via overdose after her brother killed 14 innocent women and took his own life.  

I respect that Monique Lepine has spoken out and given her side of the story, but I can't help getting the sense that she still harbors victim mentality.  Much of the book is about how horrible she felt and how horrible society was to her.  She needs to teach women need to stay away from male idiots.  Or at least not to start families with them!  If you hopelessly (and pathetically) want to try to "change" the moron then fine, subject yourself to his idiocy.  But don't bring poor children into the mix :(  I know that kids won't necessarily be exactly like their psycho parents, but damn, do we have to make it THAT hard for them growing up?  

Ugh I need to read something a little more empowering.

Mind Farts

-The senseless killing of black men can't seem to stop.  RIP Alton Sterling and Philando Castile :(  One good thing about today's world: video evidence  

-I feel sick every time I think of the dog eating festival in China.  At the very least, there is worldwide outrage and I hope it will add to the vegan spark that is growing.  Dogs are smart and lovable beings and so are other animals. 

-I have to say, Edmonton is actually not so shabby in vegan eats.  Even a sketchy part of Chinatown houses a marvelous place called Veggie Garden and their vegetarian lemongrass "chicken" is fantastic.  I enjoyed vegan cupcakes at the 124 St Market and there is a new plant-based cafe that opened on 104 St as well :). Wheeeee!

-Kettlebells and calisthenics are pretty dope.  I was able to hold crow pose for a few seconds for the first time last week!  I'm not gonna lie, I kind of wanted to dance around and squeal a little but I kept it all in.
-Listening to tropical house music makes my hips reminisce about dancing to kizomba and bachata :)

Night Owling.

If life accommodated my internal clock, it would let me to go to bed past midnight and wake up after 9AM.  This week was a bit sleep-deprived but totally worth it.

This past weekend I was in Toronto for a bachelorette party.  Loved the city! Stayed downtown and the weather was fantastic - I was in a fabulous hot concrete jungle.  It was an interesting change chatting with folks who work in industries not so directly affected by oil prices.  And out of all the people I met, only one lightheartedly made fun of me for being from "Deadmonton," so not too much of that stereotypical Centre-of-the-Universe snottiness at all!

Shortly after I came back, my sister and I started playing the very last Dreamfall Chapters game, which pretty much ruined any chance of recovering more sleep when combined with work and kettlebells/dance/climbing/calisthenics/Hachi.  It took us a few nights to finish and felt bittersweet when we finally got to the end ... we so love the story and didn't want it to stop.  Ragnar Tornquist did such a great job with the storylines - I would love to pick his brain one day regarding globalism, feminism, technology, corporations, culture and all that good stuff.  Both my sis and I are actually going through a bit of withdrawal!  I guess when a video game spans over a decade, the loss hits kinda hard.  Ok, no more gamer talk.
 

I watched Metro Manila on Netflix and loved it.  It definitely doesn't sugar coat corruption and poverty in Manila but still manages to capture how loving a Filipino family can be.  One of the main actors, Althea Vega, is breathtakingly beautiful and makes me think of what Filipinos must've looked like to their first Spaniard visitors - a ton of inky black hair, cat eyes and smooth brown skin.  

Check out Althea Vega in this movie still:

Check out this photo of a Filipina from the 1800's:

Similar, right?

To the Psychotic Murderer that Killed 50 People in Orlando:

This moronic selfie is fitting for you to be remembered by.

Photo from CBC.

Despite the current level of technological advancement, I believe more and more that the true measure of society's advancement is the level of empathy present - especially towards those that are more disadvantaged and helpless (non-humans included).

WHY CAN'T WE USE IDIOTS LIKE HIM FOR ANIMAL TESTING?  Sorry, rant over.

On a happier note, I received Hachi's official pet therapy scarf today :)  It even matches my pants for some odd reason.

A New Balance.

So I guess I'm kind of dancing again :)  I performed with some ladies from my dancehall class and it was fun! I'd forgotten about that pre-performance, during-performance and post-performance rush. 

I decided to place yoga (both Ashtanga and Iyengar) on the back burner.  I joined a kettlebell/calisthenics gym to help my pulling strength and holding up my bodyweight strength.  Which probably stems from trying to get better at rockclimbing ...

... yeah I'm spinning my wheels a little.  Prioritization is in order.  In addition to my full-time dayjob, seven days a week doesn't seem enough sometimes. 

Plus *drumroll*... Hachi will become certified to be a therapy dog! He rocked all the practicums between my sister and I.  So now we have to figure out when and where we want to take Hachi for visits :) There's a big demand, but we also have to be careful not to overcommit.  Turns out the little guy is a natural at this stuff :)  It's great to be able to take him almost anywhere.  Last weekend we took Hachi with us to Jasper and stopped by the area close to where he was found (near Nordegg) on the way to watch his dad run the Banff Jasper Relay race.  It was pretty much effortless to have him with us despite crowds and hotel rooms and get-togethers.  It was also great taking him on walks in the beautiful Rockies - on-leash the whole time of course.  

Watched Warcraft last night - thank goodness I haven't played the game because I can see myself getting addicted to magical worlds of humans and orcs.  Speaking of magical worlds, I even checked out some Ant-Man comics - hilarious!  I also watched the new Avengers movie and was intrigued by the superhero ex-convict with a master's degree in electrical engineering.  

I Kind of Have to Read This Now.

Imagine my delight when I saw this BBC headline this morning.  A combination of things that fascinate me have collided wonderfully and now I'm frothing at the mouth: Korean culture, Vegetarianism and Beautifully Written Books! 

It's already unavailable at the local library. URGFHFHFHFJFJHDDHHS.. I'm twitching so bad to read it! This might warrant a purchase :)

This So Awesomely BADASS!

I know, they weren't "supposed to" and it may have been dangerous.. But they did it and saved animals in the process :)   And of course let's not forget that there is ongoing efforts to free these trapped animals by city-designated teams as well.  200 rescued animals arrived in Edmonton today :)

Stories like this give me faith in humanity. Thoughts of trapped pets have been haunting me and even though donating money to the humane society (and Red Cross) makes me feel like I'm helping at least a little bit, I still feel really helpless. 

But reading these articles made my day :) Between entering the world of pet therapy and learning how many distraught pet-lovers there are around me, one cannot underestimate the power of the human-pet bond.